Comparative Analysis on Belonging of Romulus

The 1961 apologue Revolutionary bridle-path by author Richard Yates colligate strongly with the autobiographical recount Romulus, My Father, by Raimond Gaita, and in so doing provides a great thought of the concept of Belonging. It charts the insurrection of the marriage of Frank and April Wheeler as they struggle against the oppressive compliance of suburban 1950s America. The texts together explore the processes undergone by the individual in their integration to fraternity and its inherent cultural groups.Revolutionary Road posits as its central thought that lifespan is entirely and inescapably, non only if on the surface but right down to the core of forgiving nature an act. E truly action of the characters in the novel, every single fix of behavior, thought, and reasoning are found on a structure of self-opinionated etiquette. The central protagonist, Frank Wheeler phrases this concept dead in the look he describes the speech of his married woman as having a quality of play-acting, of slenderly dishonest intensity, a way of seeming to speak little to him and to a greater extent to some romantic abstraction.Though set in the cultural standstill of the United States in the 1950s, a cadence when the American dream, entirely achieved, was set break through to ring hollow it could easily be from any context that could be regarded as a society the text implying a sense of cosmopolitan universality of its central posit. The book shows that in any take on for acceptance, square(a) self expression volition be limited oftentimes severely so. Contrastingly, Romulus, My Father appears to espouse an entirely opposite premise that an honestly of character equates to moral goodness, even in the face of great adversity, and leave behind bring a sense of ful? led connection in life. As Gaita puts is Character was the central moral concept for my amaze and Hora. Romulus retains his own identity, in spite of the barriers it creates in a society that seeks to assimilate and it is this very attribute that allows him to decease to his family and those he loves. Romuluss ideals are based entirely on his accredited feeling, non prescribed to a speci? c formula of action and chemical reaction such as is the case in Revolutionary Road his determine are what make him. Upon further analysis, however, this is no less a compliance to protocol than that of Frank and April.Gaita states that the sense given to me by my mother and Hora, of the note between malleable laws and conventions made by human race beings to reconcile and cause their many interests, and the uncompromising authority of morality, always the judge, never truely the consideration of our interests, the perception of his son that certain rules are entirely unbreakable and unarguable is, in itself, a baseless social construct. No real compare between human convention and morality actually equals. Morality was for him as substantially a part of real ity as the natural facts of human action and motivation. To belittle the feelings of Frank Wheeler as somehow less guiding than Romuluss is also incorrect, both use feeling based reasoning to choose one of several possible options, open to them as a result of combination of circumstance and the system they take as inarguable, infallible law. Gaita attempts no higher argument for the inherent goodness of his suffer than his strict obedience and conformist attitude to a moral viewpoint, and makes no further argument for the de? nition of what good is beyond what one perceives to be good.Both are, at root, based on entirely vigour at all to shriek one moral and the other etiquette is a farce, both are mere social construct, built by cultural conditioning, to establish and maintain a system of behavior deemed correct for no true reason. They only exist as objectively unchangeable so long as their creators and keepers recall them to be so. So, to avoid the true baselessness of thei r society and everything the believe in, the protagonists of both texts haunt to a method of delusion just as strong as that which they infer to abhor.In Revolutionary Road, Yates uses a technique of not matching the inwrought dialogue or self-perception of his characters to the events of the plot or speech. Frank Wheeler will often imagine conversations in his head, or prescribe to himself some false grandiosity in his lines contrasted to a third person narrative voice, which reveals the circumstance to be usually uneventful and mediocre. April envisions herself a whole world of miraculous golden people somewhere ho made their lives work out the way they wanted without even trying, who never had to make the best of a bad job because it never occurred to them to do anything less then utterly the ? rst time. Sort of heroic super-people, all of them beautiful and witty and calm and kind, and I always imagined that when I did ? nd them Id suddenly know that I Belonged among them, that I was one of them, that Id been meant to be one of them all along, and everything in the meantime had been a mistake and theyd know it too. Id be like the ugly duckling among the swans. The Wheelers believes in something greater, something more, and that they a worthy part of it when in reality, such a thing is only when non-existent. All they truly have is the mediocrity of their suburban prison, and the paradox of a world which, with all options open, is so terrifyingly vast that they must cling to the precaution and security afforded by familiar protocol. They hold ? rm the excuse that it is necessary and ineluctable to ensure societal acceptance, and the vague general assumption that they are somehow different, somehow better or above their surroundings. They are not.All that separates them is their own idea of separation, they do not think themselves to belong, yet in reality ful? ll perfectly the 50s Nuclear Family suburban stereotype. They are everything they take o n to hate in a way so natural they probably couldnt have achieved if theyd tried. There is no backup to their facade, no face behind the masks they craft, no true identity oppressed by circumstance. All that they have is, as Frank puts it, the hopeless emptiness. This is mirrored in Romulus, but in regards to Raimonds perception of his father he sees him not as he is, but as an pilot program some romantic abstraction.The novel is essentially a glori? cation. For Raimond, Romulus is a great man someone especial(a) whose faults could either be excused to someone elses inadequacy, his madness, or an overextension of his immovable moralism him being too good. The events described clearly contradict this, however. Romulus was not scarce nor extraordinary. He lacked ambition and intelligence (after not succeeding in gaining recognition he never again pursued any attempts at education, in spite of the fact that he had suf? ient ability and opportunity yet in referance to the event, Raimond makes the claim that He cried bitterly, not because of lost employment prospects, but because his love of discipline would never be ful? lled. ). e wasted his skills in beautiful metalworking ( as the composer puts isHe was able to make almost anything to the most stern standards, his work was unsurpassed in quality and speed, and My father was not merely skilled, he was a man of practical genius) upon the verbal expression of what even his son admits is ugly furniture. e led a life style that perpetuated the isolation that so caused him and those he loved to suffer. In his life he never did a single thing that could be regarded as superior that was not to the end of his or Raimonds continued survival and though for much of it he lived through great hardship, in the context of humanness it was not especially severe. The greatest insight to this is found in the ? nal pages of the book, in the speech delivered at Romuluss funeral, in which Raimond says (in regards to hi s father) that he never purposely caused suffering to anyone.It would take a man of enormous stupidity not to realize that to in? ict domestic violence unto his mentally ill wife and young child would cause them signi? cant pain. The composer attempts to portray his fathers wrongs as a product of circumstance, removed from choice or openhanded will but if such a stance is taken, there is no limit upon extending it to good deeds as well or, even to the very heart of a persona no line can be drawn between what is merely conditioning and what is ones true nature.It is ironic that in attempting to portray a man who espoused no greater good than real character, Gaita paints a nearly perfect archetype and ignores or downplays or re-interprets aspects just as real and signi? cant to who his father was as those which play to what he seems to want to see. Raimond in his perception of his father and the Wheelers in their perception of themselves seem to assume that, would it not have been f or that which life had thrown at them, they could have been something much greater something truer to themselves or more realizing of their own potential.In reality, they had the whole world at their hands, and as much time at their disposal as any who has lived. They were exactly as they were, and nothing more. It was not circumstance that prohibited the ful? llment of these characters potential this was but a well-provided excuse it was themselves the sad fact was that neither the Wheelers nor Romulus were actually so splendid at all.Ergo, from a collective analysis of both texts, it can be concluded that, in the processes undergone by the individual in their integration to society and its inherent cultural groups, the conformity to an idealized human archetype, though necessary to belong, will inevitably deny individualistic actualization of the true human condition. Through the ideas explored in Revolutionary Road text, strong links can be made with Raimond Gaitas Romulus, M y Father, to provide a signi? cantly furthered understanding of the concept of Belonging.